Earlier this year, we used geopsychology — a study that says where you live might impact your personality — to determine how the typical Raleighite acts. Nearly 200 of you took our Raleigh personality test, and 67% of respondents identified as more introverted. Here are just a few ways to get out and about as an introvert, sans small talk.
🏛️ Museum moments
We have to begin with Raleigh’s vibrant museum scene. They’re typically quiet or filled with exhibit noises and expose you to new artists, science, and history. Plus, cafes like the one at the NC Museum of Art give you a chance to unwind among the art. If you’re feeling up to a little bit of small talk, learn about the Dueling Dinosaurs exhibit from the on-staff paleontologists at the NC Museum of Natural Sciences.
🎲 Get gaming
Spots like Boxcar and Side Quest allow for gaming while you lightly socialize — Boxcar and its wide array of arcade games and pinball machines is great for a night out that isn’t just standing around at a bar, and Side Quest is home to over 400 board games + Dungeons and Dragons nights, if that’s your vibe.
📚 Bookworms welcome
Introverts come in many varieties. If your brand is a reader who enjoys parallel play, check out Raleigh’s Silent Book Club chapters — local libraries and book stores like Blackbird Books & Coffee often host monthly meet ups. Bring whatever book you’re reading and read with the group. No one will interrupt you to ask what you’re reading or try to make small talk. Just like it should be.
👀 Step outside your comfort zone
However, if you do want to venture into the world of small talk, we’re here to give you that extra push. Raleigh’s social groups are a low-pressure way to meet new people.
