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Find your third place in Raleigh

Third places are public, informal gathering spaces that you frequent in your community. We’re here to get your recommendations and help others find their third place.

Freedom Park and it's beacon.

Your third place should be a place of peace and comfort.

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Do you have a third place around Raleigh? Take a moment to reflect. Besides your home (first space) and workplace (second space), where do you go throughout the week? Whose faces do you see and who do you talk to when you go there? Is the vibe at this space easy, non-pressuring, and potentially playful? Do you look forward to going and feel welcome?

What’s a third place?

Ray Oldenburg, a sociologist who wrote about third places in his book, “The Great Good Place” shares that third places — public, informal gathering spaces that you frequent in your community (think: coffee shops, parks, libraries, churches, breweries, bookstores, salons... etc.) — are important for many reasons, but particularly for promoting social vitality + a sense of community.

A person viewing art on a wall.

City Editor Danyale enjoying her third place, CAM Raleigh.

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City Editor Danyale here. A third place I’ve grown to love and cherish is CAM Raleigh. When I imagine the all of the art and creative people who also frequent the space, I feel a sense of home. When I browse through the exhibitions I’m often consumed with the beauty, and I’m inspired in my own writing.

City Editor Allie here. You already know you can find me at my neighborhood watering hole Gussie’s (and Left Hook Coffee). Besides great food and drinks, what keeps me coming back is the service and top-notch hospitality and community vibe.

A plate of Brussel sprouts, a plate of animal fries, and three cocktails at Gussie's.

Take a peek at our first round: Cheesy savory animal fries, Brussels sprouts, and a couple cocktails to split.

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Third places in Raleigh — recommendations

Along with the suggestions above, if you still need a few recommendations, read through the spots fellow Raleighites listed below to get you started on your third place journey.

Alexa W. enjoys the vibes of Trophy Brewing & Pizza.

Jordan B. suggested a variety listing A Place At the Table, Moore Square, and Lucky Tree Cafe.

Amber B. and Vanessa B. both suggested Quail Ridge Books.

Alisha J. and Jules W. recommended NC Museum of Art.

Danielle V. chose Dose Yoga & Smoothie Bar.

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